Popularity vs Friendship

MANY OF US ARE LONELY In his book “Everybody’s Normal till you get to know them”, author John Ortberg cites an experiment conducted by Suzy Becker where she asked primary school children to solve some of the world’s biggest problems: How do we help people to stop smoking? What can we do about global warming? […]

How to motivate people

From what I can tell, there is one extremely ineffective & damaging way to try and motivate people, and four very effective ways to try and motivate people. INEFFECTIVE >> GUILT, CRITICISM & FEAR This is by far the most common form of motivation. Churches & Christian Leaders are especially good at this. But we see […]

Seeker-Sensitve Church Services (Part Three)

PRACTICAL STEPS ‘SEEKER SENSITIVE’ VS. ‘EXCELLENCE’ The first thing that needs to be clarified about ‘seeker-sensitive services’ is that they do not necessarily have to value ‘excellence’ or feel like a ‘performance’. Consider the following table… It is possible to have a service that values ‘excellence’, but only caters for believers (Quadrant 1). It is […]